forgiveness

these days.. Oprah is very very into those self help self improvement happiness books which episodes i usually... skip   but then i happened to record one... it was titled 'the secret behind the secret' how was i not supposed to be intrigued???   and there was a short couple minute discussion on forgiveness which would probably be my big takeaway from this episode and now my brain won't stop twirling that idea around in my head   so the thing they were saying about forgiveness.. it doesn't mean you have to go for dinner or lunch with the person doesn't mean you have to talk to the person it just means that you move away from that negative experience and just not let it affect you anymore just give it time and you will see   hmmmmmmmm......   very good timing this one.. now i can save myself a few more invitations and more importantly the self conflict with regards to these persons EXCELLENT!